The New Man: Episode 71: Guy Sengstock Pt 2 - Are you trying to get something from the world?

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Are you spending your day trying to GET money, ass or attention?

Do you accumulate things in order to feel better about yourself?

And how could you earn a living by helping others transform their lives for the better?

This week, Guy Sengstock is back for part 2 of our talk on finding your purpose and mission in life.

We’re back with Guy Sengstock in our exploration of how to find your purpose or mission in life. In this episode, Guy shares his own personal story of revealing his passion and gifts.

We also make some powerful distinctions around how men use the world as a place to GET SOMETHING -- money, sex, attention, validation, etc. The flip side is seeing the world as a place to EXPRESS SOMETHING -- namely your talents and abilities to provide value or positively impact others.

Guy also walks us through a preview of his year long transformational coaching program. This is a great offering to consider if you’re looking to make some major changes in your life AND develop some skills to earn a living by helping others.

For more information on this year long transformational coaching visit:

http://www.AuthenticManProgram.com/TCLT/

Or contact Guy Sengstock at (415) 290-8385 or guy@aretecenter.com

For more information on what Circling is:

http://blog.authenticmanprogram.com/2009/05/24/guy/#comments

In this episode:

  • How Guy found his purpose by following his heart
  • Going to art school in San Francisco
  • How Circling came to be
  • Being gifted at something
  • Feeling more alive giving the gift
  • Following where he felt most alive
  • Following his deepest desire
  • The difficulty of speaking your purpose/mission
  • How you make your money, the people you hang out with
  • The importance of having other men in your life
  • The need for feedback from others
  • Humans are the only creatures who can lie to ourselves
  • The Narcissus Myth
  • Falling in love with the reflection
  • Agonizing over a yearning for the reflection
  • You already are what you’ve been searching for
  • You’ve found your purpose when it’s not outside of you “to get”
  • A BMW or Confidence
  • We want things because of the experience we think they will provide
  • What is an expression of your confidence?
  • Are you trying to get something from the world?
  • Or are you trying to express something in the world?
  • Look at what you’re currently doing in life
  • Why am I really doing this?
  • Start to be brutally honest with yourself
  • What does that get you?
  • Did you choose this?
  • If no, what would you choose?
  • Coaching, therapy, men’s groups
  • David Deida
  • Your death bed
  • Guy’s year long coaching program
  • How to be fully yourself
  • Creating transformational moments
  • Year long transformational crucible

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